What Couples Aren’t Doing at Weddings in 2025 (And What They’re Doing Instead)

The wedding world is changing fast—and 2025 couples are rewriting the rule book. At Alliance Entertainment Group, we’re seeing more and more couples skip outdated traditions in favor of creating experiences that feel fresh, fun, and true to them.

If you’re planning a wedding and wondering what’s still “in” and what’s headed out—this guide is for you.

 

9 Wedding Traditions on Their Way Out in 2025

1. Garter Toss & Bouquet Toss

The awkward garter removal and chaotic bouquet toss are fading fast. Brides often find the garter moment uncomfortable, and let’s be honest—who really wants to wrestle for flowers?

Instead: Couples are gifting the bouquet to a VIP (like grandma!) or skipping it entirely to keep the dance floor energy flowing.

2. Anniversary Dance

The sentimental slow dance honoring the longest-married couple? It's sweet, but many are ditching it to avoid breaking the party vibe or excluding single guests.

Instead: Video tributes or toasts during dinner now do the job in a more modern way.

3. Formal Grand Entrances

Lined up couples and choreographed intros feel a bit stiff for today’s couples.

Instead: We’re seeing hype entrances with custom DJ mixes, or even no entrance at all—just real moments, real fun.

4. Long, Traditional Speeches

Rambling toasts from unprepared speakers? Hard pass.

Instead: Couples are opting for short, planned toasts or pre-recorded video messages that keep the evening flowing.

5. Matching Bridesmaid Dresses

Gone are the days of every bridesmaid in the same dress, same color, same cut.

Instead: Think coordinated, not identical—mismatched dresses in complementary shades that let everyone shine.

6. Assigned Seating for Dinner

Rigid table assignments are losing their place—literally.

Instead: Lounge-style receptions, open seating, and interactive dining areas let guests move freely and mingle.

7. Traditional Guest Books

Most guest books sit in a box after the wedding and never get touched again.

Instead: Audio guestbooks, digital notes, and even interactive photo/video booths (yes, we can help!) capture the memories in more engaging ways.

8. Cake Cutting Ceremony

The cake moment can stall the party—and couples are taking note.

Instead: Dessert stations, passed treats, or even no cake at all. And if there is a cake? No microphone announcement necessary.

9. Traditional Spotlight Dances

Not everyone wants the standard parent dances.

Instead: Some couples choose group dances, skip them altogether, or swap them for something more personal.

 

What 2025 Couples Want More Of

• High-energy DJ-driven receptions (with live performers or LED drummers—yes, we do that!)

• Custom music mixes for entrances, first dances, and private last dances

• Second outfits & after-parties with a whole new vibe

• Interactive photo booths with digital sharing and custom overlays

• Personalized timelines that prioritize what matters to the couple, not tradition

We’re Here to Help You Break the Mold

At Alliance Entertainment Group, we specialize in modern, unforgettable wedding entertainment—from curated DJ sets to immersive lighting and photo experiences. If you're planning a wedding in 2025, forget what you're "supposed" to do. Let’s build a celebration around what you want. Let’s create a party your guests will never forget.